today a friend called.
she told me X applied for a position in her company. she happens to know that i am a friend of X...so i was asked to be a character reference.
now what you have to know is that X wasn't too kind to me before and i obviously do not like X as a result. so i had nothing positive to say. but i did not sabotage X's chances of getting the job by defaming. i merely told my friend my honest feelings about this person. which i think is the rightful thing to do.
now if X does not get the job because of my comments, X probably would never figured that i had a part in it. it's so bizzare and difficult to imagine that i was actually one of the determinant factors in X's career...
it's amazing how this world is round and everything is so inter-linked. and that you will never know who you have to deal with in future. it always pays to be kind to people and not say or do bad things. this shall serve as a reminder to myself.
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eh if anybody called don't say bad things about me hor!
haha..i know who u are talking abt. cos i contributed some honest opinions too. have fun in taiwan!
-liza-
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